Reverend Gary Shapiro Interfaith Minister

Reverend Gary Shapiro

Ordained Nondenominational Interfaith Minister

Spiritual Counselor, Wedding Officiant, Chaplain for End of Life and Grief Support, Conflict Resolution & Peacebuilding Facilitator
Serving Asheville, Hendersonville, Western North Carolina, Vermont, New England & Beyond

Same Sex & LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremonies

Rev. Gary Shapiro offers affirming same sex and LGBTQ+ wedding ceremonies in Asheville, Hendersonville, and Western North Carolina.

Ceremonies are fully personalized for each couple’s values, beliefs, story, and vision.

Options include secular, spiritual, interfaith, nondenominational, bilingual, elopement, and mountain wedding ceremonies.

Every couple is welcomed with dignity, respect, and joy.

Same Sex & LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremonies

Inclusive, Affirming Wedding Ceremonies in Asheville & Western NC

Love deserves to be honored fully, openly, and joyfully.

For LGBTQ+ couples, a wedding ceremony should feel safe, affirming, personal, and true to your relationship. Reverend Gary Shapiro offers same-sex and LGBTQ+ wedding ceremonies in Asheville, Hendersonville, and throughout Western North Carolina, creating meaningful celebrations that honor your love story without hesitation, judgment, or limitation.

As an ordained interfaith and nondenominational minister, Rev. Gary welcomes couples of all identities, orientations, backgrounds, beliefs, and traditions.

A Ceremony That Reflects Who You Are

Your wedding ceremony should never feel like a generic script.

Rev. Gary works with each couple to create a ceremony that reflects your values, your journey, and the commitment you are making together. Your ceremony may be spiritual, secular, interfaith, nondenominational, bilingual, traditional, creative, simple, or deeply personalized.

The focus is always the same: your love, your story, your ceremony.

LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremonies in Western North Carolina

Western North Carolina offers a beautiful setting for inclusive weddings, from intimate mountain elopements to larger celebrations with family and friends.

Rev. Gary officiates LGBTQ+ weddings throughout:

Asheville, Hendersonville, Black Mountain, Weaverville, Waynesville, Brevard, Lake Lure, Chimney Rock, and the greater Western North Carolina region.

Whether you are planning a mountain wedding, outdoor ceremony, elopement, micro-wedding, or destination celebration, your ceremony can be crafted with care and authenticity.

Same-Sex Wedding Officiant in NC

Finding the right officiant matters.

You deserve someone who does more than simply “allow” your ceremony. You deserve an officiant who celebrates your love with warmth, respect, and joy.

Rev. Gary brings a compassionate, inclusive presence to every ceremony. He supports LGBTQ+ couples with:

Personalized ceremony writing
Vow support
Interfaith or secular ceremony options
Family inclusion
Unity rituals
Spiritual blessings when desired
A calm, affirming presence on your wedding day

Inclusive Ceremonies for Every Love Story

Rev. Gary creates ceremonies for:

Same-sex couples
LGBTQ+ couples
Interfaith couples
Spiritual but not religious couples
Secular couples
Second marriages
Elopements and micro-weddings
Destination Weddings
Bilingual English and Spanish ceremonies

Every couple deserves a ceremony where they feel fully seen, respected, and celebrated.

Planning a Meaningful LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremony

A meaningful ceremony may include:

Your personal love story
Readings or poetry
Personal vows
Ring exchange
Unity rituals
Blessings or prayers
Moments of remembrance
Family participation
Cultural or spiritual traditions

Rev. Gary helps you choose the elements that feel authentic to you.

Related Wedding Ceremony Resources

You may also find these pages helpful:

Wedding Officiant in Asheville and Hendersonville North Carolina
Creating Your Interfaith Love Story
Blending Faiths: Creating a Meaningful Nondenominational Wedding Ceremony
Mountain Wedding Ceremonies in Western NC
Elopement & Intimate Wedding Ceremonies in Western NC
Bilingual Wedding Ceremonies in English & Spanish

Begin Planning Your Ceremony

Your wedding ceremony should honor the truth and beauty of your relationship.

If you are looking for a same-sex wedding officiant in NC or an affirming officiant for LGBTQ+ wedding ceremonies in Asheville, Rev. Gary would be honored to help create a ceremony that feels personal, meaningful, and joyfully yours.

Contact Reverend Gary today to begin planning your wedding ceremony.

Frequently Asked Questions About LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremonies

Do you officiate same-sex weddings in North Carolina?

Yes. Reverend Gary Shapiro joyfully officiates same-sex weddings and LGBTQ+ wedding ceremonies throughout Asheville, Hendersonville, and Western North Carolina.

Can our ceremony be spiritual but not religious?

Yes. Your ceremony can be spiritual, secular, interfaith, nondenominational, or a blend that feels authentic to you.

Do you offer LGBTQ+ elopement ceremonies?

Yes. Rev. Gary officiates LGBTQ+ elopements, intimate weddings, micro-weddings, and mountain ceremonies throughout Western North Carolina.

Can you help us write our vows?

Yes. Rev. Gary offers guidance, examples, and editing support for couples writing personal wedding vows.

Why Choose Reverend Gary as Your Officiant?

LGBTQ+ Couples choose Reverend Gary because he brings more than officiating.

He brings presence.

With over 12 years of experience officiating weddings and a background in interfaith ministry, spiritual counseling, and peacebuilding, he offers a calm, grounded, and compassionate presence on one of the most meaningful days of your life.

Couples appreciate his:

  • Warm and inclusive approach
  • Personalized ceremony design
  • Experience with diverse beliefs and traditions
  • Support with vows and ceremony planning
  • Comfort working in outdoor and mountain settings
  • LGBTQ+ inclusivity
  • Bilingual English/Spanish wedding ceremonies

What Couples Are Saying

From the very beginning, Gary asked all the right questions to gain a better understanding of who we are as a couple and worked hard to make sure that our ceremony fit us perfectly and included everything we believed to be important.

Alexandra & Joe

“We felt so supported and celebrated by Reverend Gary. His inclusive approach and attention to detail made our wedding ceremony a true reflection of our love and values.”

Michael & James

The questionnaire tool used to draft the ceremony shows how Reverend Gary is a consummate professional in his field. Between that and our conversations, the ceremony was perfect on the first draft!


The planning was so efficient and largely effortless on our part, Reverend Gary did all the work! It was filled with wonderful advice, thoughtful reflections on our relationship, and included all of our loved ones in a group vow  
Thank you so much for making our special day absolutely perfect and for taking such great care of us!”

Zach & Sarah

Same-Sex & LGBTQ+ Wedding Ceremonies

Ready to create your WNC wedding ceremony? Connect with Reverend Gary Shapiro to be your wedding officiant in Asheville, Hendersonville NC and surrounding WNC.  Reverend Gary offers guidance and support to make your special day unforgettable!

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